{"id":44439,"date":"2025-08-21T14:39:34","date_gmt":"2025-08-21T14:39:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/21\/rory-feek-weeps-after-finding-a-letter-from-joey-after-her-death\/"},"modified":"2025-08-21T14:39:34","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T14:39:34","slug":"rory-feek-weeps-after-finding-a-letter-from-joey-after-her-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/21\/rory-feek-weeps-after-finding-a-letter-from-joey-after-her-death\/","title":{"rendered":"Rory Feek Weeps After Finding a Letter From Joey After Her Death"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Grief knows no timeline.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how many years go by after losing the person you love, some moments and objects can still bring all those painful feelings rushing back.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/tags\/rory-feek\" target=\"_blank\">Rory Feek<\/a>\u00a0recently shared an intimate video of just such a moment, when he discovered an old Valentine&#8217;s Day card his late wife and duet partner <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/tags\/joey-feek\" target=\"_blank\">Joey Feek<\/a> wrote to him before she died in 2016.<\/p>\n<p>Filmed in 2021, the video shows Feek reading Joey&#8217;s message and dissolving into tears.<\/p>\n<p>It had been five years since she died at that point. But as Feek pointed out in the caption of his post, her loss was still deeply painful.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sometimes the grief will sneak up and overcome you when you least expect it,&#8221; the singer wrote.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Although it had been five years since she had been gone, in my heart, it still felt like yesterday,&#8221; he added.<\/p>\n<p>He also shared &#8220;Me &amp; the Blues,&#8221; a song featuring <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/tags\/vince-gill\" target=\"_blank\">Vince Gill<\/a>, which he says took on a whole new meaning after Joey&#8217;s death.<\/p>\n<p>He wrote it &#8220;when I first bought the old farmhouse and was struggling, wondering if I&#8217;d make a mistake to move so far from Nashville [and] the friends and life we&#8217;d had before,&#8221; Feek recounts.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I of course, had no idea at the time the lyric would hit home in a much more profound way a couple of decades later,&#8221; he went on to say.<\/p>\n<h3>Joey Feek&#8217;s Memory Lives On<\/h3>\n<p>Since her death, Feek has kept his wife&#8217;s memory alive in blog posts and social media remembrances.<\/p>\n<p>In recent weeks, he has shared several videos revolving around Joey, including a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DNdJRv7IlG0\/?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\">throwback video<\/a> from 2015, which shows the two of them being interviewed and performing music off their\u00a0<em>Hymns That Are Important to Us<\/em> album.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Read More<\/em>:<a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-daughter-indiana-singing-hymn-joey-feek\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Watch Rory Feek&#8217;s Daughter Sing a Hymn With Her Mama, Joey<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He also <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-daughter-indiana-singing-hymn-joey-feek\/\" target=\"_blank\">shared an old video<\/a> of Indiana \u2014 the daughter the couple\u00a0had together\u00a0\u2014 singing along with a recording of Joey in the car.<\/p>\n<h3>How Did Joey Feek Die?<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Joey Feek died of cancer on March 4, 2016. She was 40 years old.<\/li>\n<li>She and her country singer husband shared every step of her journey with fans.<\/li>\n<li>Indiana was just two years old when her mother died.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>What Has the Feek Family Been Doing Since Joey Died?<\/h3>\n<p>Rory has continued to release music and share his life with fans via his blog.<\/p>\n<p>In 2024, he <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-finds-love-joey-feek-death\/\" target=\"_blank\">announced<\/a> that he had found love again with Rebecca, Indiana&#8217;s schoolteacher. The couple got married that summer.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Read More<\/em>: <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-finds-love-joey-feek-death\/\" target=\"_blank\">Rory Feek Has Found Love Again, 8 Years After Joey&#8217;s Death<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In recent years, he&#8217;s also had a falling-out with his two oldest daughters, Heidi and Hopie, who are both in their 30s and born from a marriage Feek had prior to meeting Joey.<\/p>\n<h3>A Difficult Family Estrangement<\/h3>\n<p>Heidi and Hopie say that their estrangement was the result of a culmination of issues, and he denied their requests to attend family counseling with them.<\/p>\n<p>They say they&#8217;ve been blocked from seeing or communicating with Indiana \u2014 after formerly being a big part of her life \u2014 as part of this feud.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ve also said that they reconnected with their birth mother, Tamara Gilmer, who was not in their lives much as children. The daughters claim that Feek misrepresented why Gilmer wasn&#8217;t around, and that he kept her from them growing up.<\/p>\n<p>Feek has countered that Gilmer&#8217;s story about why she was absent is untrue, and said that he believes it&#8217;s up to himself and his daughters \u2014 not a counselor \u2014 to resolve their issues.<\/p>\n<p>He also said he has been distancing Indiana from his daughters because their world views don&#8217;t align with his, and because they allow her to watch screens too much when she&#8217;s at their houses.<\/p>\n<h3>A Shocking Paternity Revelation<\/h3>\n<p>In February, Feek&#8217;s oldest daughter Hopie revealed that she&#8217;d taken a DNA test that yielded some surprising results: Feek is <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-daughter-hopie-not-her-biological-dad\/\" target=\"_blank\">not her biological father<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She said she&#8217;s been getting to know her actual biological father, and that this new relationship has provided some healing.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Read More<\/em>: <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-daughter-birth-father-response\/\" target=\"_blank\">Rory Feek Not Surprised\u00a0by Daughter&#8217;s Paternity Test News<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Feek says he wasn&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rory-feek-daughter-birth-father-response\/\" target=\"_blank\">all that surprised<\/a> to learn the news and shared some details and a timeline to explain why.<\/p>\n<div class=\"photogallery-wrapper blog-photogallery \">\n<h2 class=\"photogallery-title\">See Country Music&#8217;s Most Famous Feuds<\/h2>\n<div class=\"photogallery-description\">\n<p>A few of these famous country music feuds were settled peacefully. 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