{"id":44469,"date":"2025-08-21T17:05:35","date_gmt":"2025-08-21T17:05:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/21\/chris-stapletons-co-writer-hated-him-before-writing-together\/"},"modified":"2025-08-21T17:05:35","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T17:05:35","slug":"chris-stapletons-co-writer-hated-him-before-writing-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/21\/chris-stapletons-co-writer-hated-him-before-writing-together\/","title":{"rendered":"Chris Stapleton&#8217;s Co-Writer &#8216;Hated Him&#8217; Before Writing Together"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/tags\/chris-stapleton\/\">Chris Stapleton<\/a>&#8216;s &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; lyrics and arrangement brought an air of gritty authenticity back to country music in 2015, and according to one of its writers, the song came straight from real life.<\/p>\n<p>Barry Bales jokingly added that he &#8220;hated&#8221; Stapleton before he ever met and worked with him, because he was sick of hearing so many people gush over him and his talent.<\/p>\n<h3>Who Wrote Chris Stapleton&#8217;s &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221;?<\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; was the third single from Stapleton&#8217;s acclaimed, award-winning debut album, <em>Traveller<\/em>, but at the time Stapleton, Ronnie Bowman and Barry Bales got together to write it, Stapleton was one of Nashville&#8217;s most highly respected best-kept secrets and had not yet signed his deal.<\/p>\n<div class=\"branded-app-shortcode-inarticle\">\n<div class=\"logo-wrap\" rel=\"fwef\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>The trio all knew each other and were collaborators, but it was one of the first times they&#8217;d written together as a trio.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I go walking into his little writing house that he has out back, and there sits Ronnie, who&#8217;s been a friend of mine for years and years and years. So that was great right off the bat,&#8221; Bales told Taste of Country in 2016.<\/p>\n<h3>What Inspired Chis Stapleton&#8217;s &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221;?<\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;Ronnie&#8217;s quite a character. He came in, and he was all flustered. He and his wife had sort of had a little go-around or something, and he was telling us the story,&#8221; Bales recalled.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He goes through the whole thing and he gets to the end, and he goes, &#8216;But you know, I&#8217;ve got nobody to blame but me.&#8217; And me and Chris, immediately our heads just snapped, looking at each other and saying, &#8216;That&#8217;s our song, right there.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>According to Bales \u2014\u00a0who, in addition to his successful songwriting career, is a 14-time Grammy winner and member of <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/tags\/alison-krauss\/\">Alison Krauss<\/a> and Union Station \u2014\u00a0the song came quickly in a single writing session. &#8220;It really didn&#8217;t take an awful lot of time or banging our heads against the wall. With those guys, they&#8217;re so talented, it came pretty easy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was a group effort on lyrics, and Chris is such a force of nature that when you&#8217;re writing with him, you&#8217;ve just got to jump on it and hang on for the ride.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He&#8217;s always oozing music, and words and melodies. He&#8217;ll come into the room, and he&#8217;ll be sorta scatting out an idea that he had on the way over. He launched it with a guitar riff, and we kinda jumped in with lyrics and little tweaks here and there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; lyrics are a clever twist on a standard country theme: <em>&#8220;I know right where I went wrong \/\u00a0I know just what got her gone \/\u00a0Turned my life into this country song \/\u00a0And I got nobody to blame but me,&#8221;<\/em> the chorus states.<\/p>\n<p>They made a rough recording of the song, but never recorded a formal demo. It wasn&#8217;t being pitched around Nashville, but &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; still resonated with all three writers.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Every once in a while I&#8217;d run into Ronnie or Chris, and they&#8217;d say, &#8216;Man, that song is just stuck in my head,&#8217; and I always figured it would sure be great if we could get it to somebody to cut,&#8221; Bales said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I never dreamed it would be Chris cutting it and having success with it. That just makes it so much better, having been a friend and a fan for so long.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Stapleton ended up getting his own solo recording deal and including &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; on his <em>Traveller<\/em> record, which was a much-celebrated album that was little-known outside of critical circles until Nov. 4, 2015, when Stapleton made one of the most <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/chris-stapleton-cma-awards-wins\/\">surprising sweeps<\/a> in CMA Awards history, winning Best New Artist, Male Vocalist and Album of the Year.<\/p>\n<p>He capped off his life-changing night with a <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/chris-stapleton-justin-timberlake-2015-cma-awards-performance\/\">star-making duet performance<\/a> with <a href=\"https:\/\/popcrush.com\/tags\/justin-timberlake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Justin Timberlake<\/a> that was the hands-down highlight of the show, and &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; was his first new single after that.<\/p>\n<h3>How Did Chris Stapleton&#8217;s &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; Do in the Country Charts?<\/h3>\n<p>The song reached No. 10 on <em>Billboard<\/em>&#8216;s Country Airplay chart, giving Stapleton his first-ever Top 10 hit.<\/p>\n<h3>What Is Chris Stapleton Like in Real Life?<\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;As everybody has said, he&#8217;s so deserving,&#8221; Bales noted.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Chris\u00a0was one of those guys that I heard so much about how good he was that before I ever met him, I hated him. It&#8217;s like, &#8216;Enough about Chris Stapleton already!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But then you hear him and you just can&#8217;t describe it. It&#8217;s a hundred times better than anybody ever alluded to, and then on top of that, he&#8217;s an incredibly nice and humble guy. So you can&#8217;t help but really be fond of him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"photogallery-wrapper blog-photogallery \">\n<h2 class=\"photogallery-title\">PHOTOS: See Inside Chris Stapleton&#8217;s New Country Music Hall of Fame Exhibit<\/h2>\n<div class=\"photogallery-description\">\n<p>A new exhibit highlighting the life and career of Chris Stapleton is currently open at the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum in downtown Nashville.<\/p>\n<p><em>Chris Stapleton: Since 1978<\/em>\u00a0includes childhood keepsakes, instruments, awards, clothing and unique keepsakes that tell the story of the Kentucky native&#8217;s journey from an aspiring songwriter to one of country music&#8217;s biggest stars.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"photogallery-credit\">Gallery Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/author\/lliebig\" target=\"_blank\">Lorie Liebig<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><script src=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/rest\/carbon\/api\/scripts.js?mver=70&#038;gver=6&#038;bid=204&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Fbtloader.com%2Ftag%3Fo%3D5642230212591616%26upapi%3Dtrue&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Fcdn.p-n.io%2Fpushly-sdk.min.js%3Fdomain_key%3DGbJ4PR9JZzdxdLXzJnfIG9ZgkXSFQNevIcIY&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Ftownsquare.media%2Fpublic%2Fresources%2Fjs%2Fpubcid.min.js&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Fplatform.twitter.com%2Fwidgets.js&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Fapis.google.com%2Fjs%2Fplatform.js&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Fconnect.facebook.net%2Fen_US%2Fsdk.js&#038;urls[]=https%3A%2F%2Fassets.pinterest.com%2Fjs%2Fpinit.js\" type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer data-osano=\"ESSENTIAL\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/tasteofcountry.com\/chris-stapleton-nobody-to-blame-lyrics\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chris Stapleton&#8216;s &#8220;Nobody to Blame&#8221; lyrics and arrangement brought an air of gritty authenticity back to country music in 2015, and according to one&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":44470,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-country","article","has-excerpt","has-avatar","has-author","has-date","has-comment-count","has-category-meta","has-read-more","thumbnail-"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44469"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44469\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44470"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}