{"id":50463,"date":"2025-10-30T15:12:03","date_gmt":"2025-10-30T15:12:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/30\/melissa-auf-der-maur-announces-memoir-even-the-good-girls-will-cry\/"},"modified":"2025-10-30T15:12:03","modified_gmt":"2025-10-30T15:12:03","slug":"melissa-auf-der-maur-announces-memoir-even-the-good-girls-will-cry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/30\/melissa-auf-der-maur-announces-memoir-even-the-good-girls-will-cry\/","title":{"rendered":"Melissa Auf der Maur Announces Memoir &#8216;Even the Good Girls Will Cry&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\tMelissa Auf der Maur, the veteran bassist whose stints with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/t\/hole\/\" id=\"auto-tag_hole\" data-tag=\"hole\">Hole<\/a> and Smashing Pumpkins helped make them pillars of Nineties rock and beyond, has announced her debut book, exclusively with <em>Rolling Stone<\/em>. The musician and photographer will release <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dacapopress.com\/titles\/melissa-auf-der-maur\/even-the-good-girls-will-cry\/9780306833755\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Even the Good Girls Will Cry: A 90s Rock Memoir<\/a><\/em> on March 17 via Da Capo. <\/p>\n<p>The book will trace Auf der Maur\u2019s upbringing in Montreal through her career as a bassist, first with her band, Tinker. She joined Courtney Love\u2019s band Hole on the <em>Live Through This<\/em> tour, following the death of bassist Kristen Pfaff and Kurt Cobain, then toured with the Smashing Pumpkins.<\/p>\n<div class=\"post-content-image \/\/  \">\n<figure class=\"o-figure   size-large alignnone lrv-u-max-width-100p\" style=\"width:1024px\">\n<div class=\"c-lazy-image  lrv-u-border-a-2\">\n<div class=\"lrv-a-crop-16x9\" style=\"padding-bottom:calc((683\/1024)*100%);\">\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div><figcaption class=\"c-figcaption  lrv-u-flex lrv-u-flex-direction-column lrv-u-align-items-center\">\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<cite class=\"lrv-u-text-transform-uppercase lrv-a-font-body-xs lrv-u-margin-t-050 lrv-u-text-align-center\">\u00a9 Melissa Auf der Maur<\/cite><\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\t<em>Even the Good Girls Will Cry<\/em> is described as \u201cpart coming-of-age autobiography, part travel diary, part psychedelic scrapbook,\u201d with rare photographs, like the one above of Auf der Maur and Billy Corgan. \u201cI took this selfie side stage on the life-changing night that my little Montreal band opened up for them in 1993, on<em> Siamese Dream<\/em> tour,\u201d Auf der Maur tells <em>Rolling Stone. <\/em>\u201cAnd he told me one day I\u2019d be in his band.\u00a0He discovered me that night and recommended me to Courtney six months later, when Hole lost their bass player.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\tAuf der Maur expanded on the significance of the photo to <em>Rolling Stone<\/em>:<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\t<em>\u201cCan I take our photo, Billy?\u201d I asked as he walked off the stage, the crowd was still screaming for more. I wrapped my arm around his sweaty, giant frame, and\u00a0SNAP. \u00a0I\u00a0captured\u00a0the innocence of a 21-year-old, music obsessed woman, side by side with her mentor.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\t<em>Billy had invited my band, Tinker, to be the local Montreal act on their Siamese Dream tour. I had just played to the biggest crowd of my life as a bass player so far. It was only our sixth show ever.\u00a0That opening slot changed my life, and had come to be because of a thrown beer bottle, and a fan letter I wrote to the Virgin Records PO Box.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\t<em>\u201cOne day you\u2019ll be in my band,\u201d he said with a big smile. Even if we never saw each other again, that night I was given the confidence I needed, to commit to my bass and the lofty dream, of making music my life.<\/em><\/p>\n<section class=\"brands-most-popular \/\/ recirculation-modules trending-in-article lrv-u-margin-tb-2 lrv-u-border-a-2 u-box-shadow-5-5 lrv-u-padding-lr-1 a-span1 u-padding-b-1@tablet u-overflow-hidden\">\n<h2 id=\"section-heading\" class=\"c-heading larva  lrv-u-text-align-center u-border-color-black a-font-theme-primary-xxs lrv-u-color-black lrv-u-text-transform-uppercase u-letter-spacing-0063 lrv-u-padding-t-050 u-padding-b-0375@tablet lrv-u-padding-b-050@mobile-max lrv-u-border-b-2\">\n<p>\t\tTrending Stories<\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<\/section>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\tThe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/t\/memoir\/\" id=\"auto-tag_memoir\" data-tag=\"memoir\">memoir<\/a>, available for <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dacapopress.com\/titles\/melissa-auf-der-maur\/even-the-good-girls-will-cry\/9780306833755\/\" target=\"_blank\">preorder now<\/a>, also includes cameos by Stevie Nicks, Dave Grohl, Rufus Wainwright, Michael Stipe, Ben Stiller, and more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph larva \/\/ lrv-u-line-height-copy  lrv-a-font-body-l   \">\n\tEarlier this summer, Auf der Maur <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/music\/music-news\/billy-corgan-melissa-auf-der-maur-perform-smashing-pumpkins-1235365174\/\">reunited <\/a>with Corgan onstage in Montreal, where she performed \u201cThe Everlasting Gaze\u201d alongside his Machines of God band. Though Love is insistent that Hole will not reunite, she\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/music\/music-news\/courtney-love-melissa-auf-der-maur-reunite-hole-748283\/\">linked up<\/a> with Auf der Maur over the years (sadly, their appearance at a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/music\/music-news\/hole-reunion-planned-parenthood-benefit-954538\/\">Planned Parenthood benefit<\/a> was cancelled due to the pandemic). Love is also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/music\/music-news\/courtney-love-bob-dylan-like-a-rolling-stone-cover-1235289825\/\">expected<\/a> to release a memoir soon.<\/p>\n<div class=\"post-content-image \/\/  \">\n<figure class=\"o-figure   size-large alignnone lrv-u-max-width-100p\" style=\"width:676px\">\n<div class=\"c-lazy-image  lrv-u-border-a-2\">\n<div class=\"lrv-a-crop-16x9\" style=\"padding-bottom:calc((1024\/676)*100%);\">\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"c-lazy-image__img lrv-u-background-color-grey-lightest lrv-u-width-100p lrv-u-display-block lrv-u-height-auto\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/wp-content\/themes\/vip\/pmc-rollingstone-2022\/assets\/public\/lazyload-fallback.gif\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/melissa-memoir.jpg?w=676\" alt=\"\" data-lazy-srcset=\"\" data-lazy-sizes=\"\" height=\"1024\" width=\"676\" decoding=\"async\"\/><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div><figcaption class=\"c-figcaption  lrv-u-flex lrv-u-flex-direction-column lrv-u-align-items-center\">\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/music\/music-news\/melissa-auf-der-maur-hole-smashing-pumpkins-book-1235456039\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Melissa Auf der Maur, the veteran bassist whose stints with Hole and Smashing Pumpkins helped make them pillars of Nineties rock and beyond, has&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":50464,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[36],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50463","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pop","article","has-excerpt","has-avatar","has-author","has-date","has-comment-count","has-category-meta","has-read-more","thumbnail-"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50463","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50463"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50463\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50464"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50463"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50463"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/musicianvoice.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50463"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}