Anya Lacey is bringing her “tradwife” beliefs to the dating world in a way that’s shaking things up.
The 19-year-old adult content creator — best known for blending old-school values with a modern platform — recently launched her own dating site, and it’s already sparking debate online.
Her goal? To find a man who shares her conservative ideals: faith, family and traditional gender roles.
“My fans kept saying, ‘Anya, you should launch your own dating app,’” she explained in a press release. “This is my version of that, but it’s curated — for men who are ready to lead.”
A Traditional Mindset in a Digital World
Lacey has built a massive audience — over 530,000 Instagram followers — by offering dating advice through a conservative lens.
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She frequently posts from a “tradwife” perspective, rejecting hookup culture and encouraging women to embrace old-fashioned standards when it comes to love and marriage.
“I believe in femininity, but also in boundaries,” she said. “If he doesn’t want to provide, that’s a hard no from me.”
Her “Date Me” application asks potential matches to answer pointed questions like:
- Do you believe in God?
- Do you want kids?
- Can you change a tire?
- Do you still talk to your exes?
Lacey says she’s received plenty of submissions — some with real potential — but she’s in no rush to meet anyone in person just yet.
“I really like to, for lack of better words, vet a lot of these people,” she shared.
Praise, Pushback + Her Bigger Goal
Not surprisingly, Lacey’s dating site has triggered both admiration and backlash.
A viral clip where she declared she’d never date a man who doesn’t make six figures drew thousands of comments. Her take? “That’s not shallow. That’s strategic.”
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Supporters say she’s a refreshing voice in a world where traditional views are often pushed aside. “She’s what conservative dating TikTok needed,” one fan wrote.
Others argue her standards feel outdated and unrealistic. Lacey doesn’t seem too concerned.
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“I’m not here to make everyone comfortable,” she said. “I’m here to help women get what they actually want.”
Still on OnlyFans — For Now
While her search for a partner continues, Lacey says she has no plans to step away from OnlyFans anytime soon — unless the right man comes along.
“This will be my job for the foreseeable future. I don’t really have plans on stopping it anytime soon,” she told Us Weekly. “If I meet the perfect person… that might be a conversation there.”
What Is a ‘Tradwife’?
The term “tradwife” refers to a woman who embraces traditional gender roles — typically focusing on homemaking, raising children, and supporting a husband who serves as the family’s primary provider.
“This lifestyle choice refers to mid-20th-century ideals strongly emphasizing domestic duties and family care,” explains Meg Tibayan, parenting expert and co-founder of Bright Sprouts.
It’s not for everyone — and Lacey knows that — but for her, it’s the future she’s building toward, one carefully vetted date at a time.
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